12–10 Months Before
Starting early is the single biggest factor in a stress-free wedding. Here's what to tackle first:
- •Set your budget — Sit down with your partner (and any contributing family members) to determine your total budget. Use our Budget Tracker to categorize spending from day one.
- •Choose your wedding date — Consider season, day of the week (Saturday weddings cost 20–40% more than Friday or Sunday), and venue availability.
- •Book your venue — Popular venues book 12–18 months in advance. Visit at least 3 before deciding. Check our Vendor Manager to track quotes.
- •Start your guest list — Use our Guest Manager to organize by side (Partner 1, Partner 2, Mutual) from the start. This prevents conflicts later.
- •Hire a photographer — Top photographers book a year out. Get referrals, review portfolios, and use our Shot List tool to plan must-have shots.
9–7 Months Before
- •Book key vendors — Caterer, florist, DJ/band, and officiant. Use our Vendor Comparison tool to evaluate proposals side-by-side.
- •Choose your wedding party — Formally ask bridesmaids, groomsmen, and other attendants. Track them in our Wedding Party module.
- •Shop for attire — Wedding dresses need 4–6 months for ordering plus 2–3 months for alterations.
- •Send save-the-dates — Digital or printed, get these out 6–8 months before your date.
- •Plan pre-wedding events — Engagement party, bridal shower, bachelor/bachelorette. Use our Pre-Wedding planner.
6–4 Months Before
- •Order invitations — Include RSVP deadline (typically 3–4 weeks before the wedding). Set your RSVP deadline in the app for automatic tracking.
- •Plan your ceremony — Write or choose readings, vows, and music. Our Ceremony Builder helps structure every moment.
- •Book honeymoon — Flights and hotels are cheapest 4–6 months out. Use our Honeymoon Planner.
- •Arrange transportation — Shuttle buses, limos, or rideshare coordination. Track in our Transport module.
- •Create your wedding website — Share details with guests using our Wedding Website Builder.
3–1 Months Before
- •Final fittings — Schedule 2–3 weeks before the wedding.
- •Finalize seating chart — Use our Drag-and-Drop Seating Chart to arrange tables visually on a floor plan.
- •Create day-of timeline — Our Timeline Builder auto-generates a schedule based on your ceremony and reception times.
- •Get your marriage license — Requirements vary by state. Use our Marriage License Checklist to track documents needed.
- •Prepare vendor payments — Check all remaining balances in your Budget Tracker.
Week Of
- •Confirm all vendors — Use our Day-of Contacts to have every phone number in one place.
- •Pack an emergency kit — Safety pins, stain remover, pain reliever, phone charger, snacks.
- •Delegate — Assign tasks to your wedding party. They WANT to help.
- •Breathe — You've planned beautifully. Now enjoy every moment.
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